Envision yourself as an individual with an extraordinary and unique presence; repeat the formula daily, for months, over and over until you convince yourself this is who you really are. Dare to act, behave, respond, think, walk and talk as a leader of men. Commit to re-frame your mind, see yourself performing in the most powerful, confident, charismatic, and determined way in any aspect of your life. Become the most impressive version of yourself when talking to people, making them feel your self-assured presence. Picture yourself at work, being polite, helpful, and appealing. Create a mental image of yourself interacting with people, anytime and anywhere, and let them feel your magnetic and charming presence. Let your strong personality show and display your daring and confident attitude.
Take very good care of your personal hygiene, be cut and clean. Allow others to witness your individuality and the rarity of your type of personality and attitude. Let them see that you are no ordinary man and that you don’t settle for little; show that you are an educated individual with supreme self-control, a man that relies on nobody else but himself for approval, a man that seeks no validation.
Though it adds impact to your presence, do not rely on dressing up to stand out. You don’t need to raise your voice for people to hear you, you don’t need to step unto others to earn anything. Be excellent at what you do, because you believe in going the extra mile to develop yourself, not to earn more or gain anybody’s trust or respect, but to become the highest expression of yourself. You know that it is not what you do what gives you high status, or how much you make, or who you know, it is what you do for others that does. Show your value, first class behavior, world-class mentality, and your captivating, appealing, and fascinating persona to every person that crosses paths with you, be it the CEO of a company, or the cashier at the supermarket.
See yourself as a world-class individual that creates a strong and attractive impression on others, see yourself succeeding in your field of work and showing your talents and skills as well as your commitment and determination to any projects you might have in hand. Let the world see that you do not feel inferior to anyone, that you do not need validation or approval from anyone, that you put no halo on man or woman, and that you are not seeking high status, you already have it. You are NOT the kind of person that feels intimidated or overwhelmed in the presence of beauty, money or fame. Picture yourself achieving great performances in any field and coming through any failures or mishaps you might come across. Express your potential in any form and place, claim your individuality since you are rare and one of a kind but always remember to be humble and respectful towards others. Show your spiritual side and always thank God for every day you live, always be grateful to live another day and have another chance to enjoy life, help others, and share your love. Be daring, be kind, be respectful, be modest and you will be deserving of endless success in any way.
DETERMINATION AND STRENGTH GROW FROM WITHIN
Be willing to get knocked down and get up for more. Face your worst fears; time will come when you will be able to handle your fears and doubts when after many failures, you will be battle scarred and the wounds and the pain will not scare you anymore. Time will come when all the pain and fear met with determination, resilience, and willpower will pay you back. If you are looking for greatness, your faith must outgrow your fears. Form a powerful personality, develop a strong presence, create reliable self-control, improve your self-communication, and build strong self-esteem. You must build a mentality that remains unaffected by any external influence; a mindset that will not allow external factors to impact it or change your beliefs.
You must learn to blindly believe in your powerful and confident self-image. Develop self-control to keep a centered mind when you fail miserably, because it is going to happen, and it will happen consistently. You must establish deep-rooted principles to help you create a committed and emotionally balanced vision of yourself. It is not only your duty but also a requirement and an obligation to develop a powerful mental image of yourself. Your life scars will fade but your resilience, determination and self-control will never stop being tested. It is up to you if you want to sit and whine, cry and curse the world for all the misfortunes that happen to you; if you choose to be weak and unresponsive, you better get used to living a long life of misery and unhappiness. If you don't have the nerve to go into unexplored territory, you will live the rest of your life questioning yourself how far you could have gone. Rise to the challenges of life, dominate your mind, control your emotions; don’t be a slave to your feelings, it is you who decide what you are going to do when the going gets tough.