Envision yourself as an individual with an extraordinary and unique presence; repeat the formula daily, for months, over and over until you convince yourself this is who you really are. Dare to act, behave, respond, think, walk and talk as a leader of men. Commit to re-frame your mind, see yourself performing in the most powerful, confident, charismatic, and determined way in any aspect of your life. Become the most impressive version of yourself when talking to people, making them feel your self-assured presence. Picture yourself at work, being polite, helpful, and appealing. Create a mental image of yourself interacting with people, anytime and anywhere, and let them feel your magnetic and charming presence. Let your strong personality show and display your daring and confident attitude.
Take very good care of your personal hygiene, be cut and clean. Allow others to witness your individuality and the rarity of your type of personality and attitude. Let them see that you are no ordinary man and that you don’t settle for little; show that you are an educated individual with supreme self-control, a man that relies on nobody else but himself for approval, a man that seeks no validation.
Though it adds impact to your presence, do not rely on dressing up to stand out. You don’t need to raise your voice for people to hear you, you don’t need to step unto others to earn anything. Be excellent at what you do, because you believe in going the extra mile to develop yourself, not to earn more or gain anybody’s trust or respect, but to become the highest expression of yourself. You know that it is not what you do what gives you high status, or how much you make, or who you know, it is what you do for others that does. Show your value, first class behavior, world-class mentality, and your captivating, appealing, and fascinating persona to every person that crosses paths with you, be it the CEO of a company, or the cashier at the supermarket.
See yourself as a world-class individual that creates a strong and attractive impression on others, see yourself succeeding in your field of work and showing your talents and skills as well as your commitment and determination to any projects you might have in hand. Let the world see that you do not feel inferior to anyone, that you do not need validation or approval from anyone, that you put no halo on man or woman, and that you are not seeking high status, you already have it. You are NOT the kind of person that feels intimidated or overwhelmed in the presence of beauty, money or fame. Picture yourself achieving great performances in any field and coming through any failures or mishaps you might come across. Express your potential in any form and place, claim your individuality since you are rare and one of a kind but always remember to be humble and respectful towards others. Show your spiritual side and always thank God for every day you live, always be grateful to live another day and have another chance to enjoy life, help others, and share your love. Be daring, be kind, be respectful, be modest and you will be deserving of endless success in any way.
Expect To Be Great
It is important to understand that greatness requires change. Change in your attitude and the way you look at yourself; change in your dily routine and the size of your goals. Learn to handle the fear of the unknown; dramatic development in any aspect of your life requires aaudacity. Be bold and step off of your comfort zone, decide to confront your fears and believe you can handle it; tell yourself that no matter what the result is, you will stay strong and you will keep your will to fight. Assume that you already are the successful person you want to become, think like it, act like it and look like it. Expect to be great, control your emotions and stay centered, develop fortitude and don’t steer away from your goal. After you face fear and dare to do something you have never done before, after changing your mindset and creating a powerful presence, you will see that something else will take the place of fear as it subsides and that something is courage, hope, faith, and resilience. A personality transformation will take place. Recall your successes to reinforce the feelings of confidence and fortitude. Life is too short to live it in fear, boldness will bring excitement to your existence, it will make you feel energized and stronger; it will open your eyes and show you what it is to grow and develop your potential. Free yourself from the chains of fear, insecurity, anger, anxiety, and rejection. Set yourself free; claim your mind, thoughts, feelings, and emotions as exclusively yours, no one has the right or power to decide for you, unless you allow it.