Embrace adversity in life and take time to absorb the impact of difficult moments. Anger, and blaming are many times the first response to many difficult situations, and it doesn’t help, it just brings more pain, and it creates resentment and hopelessness. If you want to find peace, you must focus on what to do about what happens to you, instead of thinking in life is unfair. Life is unfair many times and that is out of our control. Try to control life, and you will lose 100% of the time. Focus on what it is that needs to be done, pay attention only to what is the immediate next step to take, what is the next thing to do. But don’t jump forward in time skipping tasks because life feels overwhelming and miserable. There will be many times in life when we will not be able to understand the reason why something happens to us; we can control what happens in our minds, our responses, but trying to find an explanation for every situation that we live through is simply impossible. We must accept the fact that we will be hurt many times, but only keeping a calm mind will make you able to see the obstacles that are worth going through, the events that hurt but will help us become stronger persons, and what will shape our most powerful selves. Nobody asks for suffering, but it is inevitable that it will happen to us, and when it does, instead of going around blaming anyone, make a frontal move towards it. Let it hit you, let it burn and crush you, but don’t take too long to get up, dust yourself up, and start planning what to do about it. Suffering will leave scars in every person; it is up to you what it will do to your character. Whether it creates character, strength, and emotional balance in you, or bitterness and sadness, you are the only one that decides what it will be.
